Debuts today may come in various themes, depending on the budget and desire of the debutante and her family. However, the traditional mode of debut includes gowns, coats, 18 roses,the cotillion, 18 candles, 18 wishes and other perks like having 18 balloons, etc. When there are just too many of these 18 ceremonies put into the occasion, especially when each requires speeches, the party will become boring. A party is what the word is. It is a party and therefore it should be fun.